Yeah, i know. im here again.
so what has happend since i loast posted here?
Well first i moved to Arizona.
Started my photography skills.
Still dealing with rejection of women.
still dealing with my moms' health. which is why i may not be staying for long here.
the worse part is i know i only am friends with a few models due to the fact of my work ethic.
why does it sttill hurt?
i had the worse rejection ever when i went all the way on a hour train ride to downtown phoenix to meet a girl i was madly interested in, only to see her and her rejecting me for a guy who is her interest in the case of what he looks like.
and yet i gotten abit stronger in my case for dealing with the rejection.
and anger in some cases.
I don't know how or why. when i haven't even done anything to make this feel wierd.
hell some women i at least know i don't have a shot with, so im glad of being friends with them, but a few gems i see who i hope were interested i guess didn't see anything in a guy like me.
whats worse is two photographers in the area both have done things with thier spouses who are models too, and yet i envy that.
i dunno really what to write but this because its kinda got me so down today. to know that not even in this state or city i don't think i have a chance in hell to have someone of my own to make happy. even when im successful in my craft.
can't catch a break.
i don't even know what else to say because i don't even think anyone reads this. and im sure they already assume im being perverted or something.
*Jurai or Die*
Monday, August 31, 2015
Saturday, April 4, 2015
I have to trust Her.
I recently got into a argument with her because I felt like she was holding information back from me on her and another guy.
and it blew up in my face.
I want to forget that Ever happen.
I'm trying to.
But the lingering keeps happening.
I want this to work so that when we meet it will mean something.
I have to trust her.
I've been down rpads where the women I had feelings for from a distance I couldn't trust. And they ended bad.
I don't want this from her. Because she says she values and considers my feelings.
And I believe her on that.
because NO WOMAN EVER DOES.
my anxiety plays tricks on me.
but also my friends tell me the scenarios that this could be in. I don't want to believe that.
but again it doesn't seem that way.
but I have to trust her.
I have to tell myself this is real.
and she is real.
and in the end, it will be worth it.
Because I want to be the one to be her BEST FRIEND In the world.
I've worked my way to being the there for her for more than two years.
I refuse to let this end With nothing.
she is my Robin.
and I am her bruce.
because she's my partner in crime.
more than a potential soul mate but a partner.
equal in hearts and mind.
If there is a god, let her be the one for me.
*Jurai Or Die*
Thursday, March 26, 2015
I feel like sometimes the girl I have feelings for doesn't want to give me the support I expect back even though I support her all the time. When she posts about how she feels bad for those who leave her and how some people who stay with her she is grateful for, I wonder if she even cares about what goes on in their lives? When I lost my aunt, I didn't get any support from her. When I got kicked out she never texted me back . When I dealt with health scares, she never said anything of showing concern. I don't want to be mad at her because she is dealing with the same things as me. Anger, depression. And anxiety. Just like me. But yet I'm able to put those aside to show I care for someone else. Is it because her condition is worse than mine? Is it because it am able to handle it better? I wonder. I don't want to make her mad. I just need more explaination. If only it had a moment to talk to her. Get this out in the open. Even if it meant waiting. Am in wrong for being this pessimistic ?
I don't want my Angel of The Night to end up actually be the Devils advocate.
*Jurai Or die*
Sunday, December 14, 2014
So as you guys may have not known, i officially made Youtube Partner!
which means starting 2015, i'll be doing a Webseries on my Youtube!
what will it be about?
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Stay Tuned.. More to Come, Shwight
Saturday, November 29, 2014
i said many times i'm not a perfect man.
but i don't like drama. let alone be the reason for it.
i'm man enough to squash a rivalry or a hatred with an individual if an invitation is made. i admit it. I've done it before. if a certain person didn't do that dirty to me enough to make me bitter on them i will admit to not speaking ill will on ANYONE who i fell off with. doesn't matter. but DON'T expect me to beg for reconciliation. i will not BOW or Bend my knees to them for the friendship to be rekindled. If i'm done with the bullshit and if we can squash it i'll be man enough to squash it.
but otherwise i'm not begging. cause I've been humiliated already enough.and i'm man enough to end drama that maybe irrelevant.
so to all my friends who are friends with the people who i fell out of alliances with sees this. tell them. let them know i'm making the move and willing to talk and reason. cause i said before i don't like conflicts.
and i'll be damn if i die tomorrow i don't end the conflicts i have of my own.
*jurai or die*
Monday, November 10, 2014
The truth is everyone who says they understands you doesn't understand. they will be no different than the people who hate you. They will eventually leave you and make you feel horrible for it..that's why I regret being social sometimes. because you can be depressed like others, you can have anxiety, you can even have the same mental conditions as someone else, but there will be moments where you sadly have to realize they get tired and annoyed of even YOUR antics. it's happened to me now more than I realize, and it's because of things I've said or things I've done. choices I've made or decisions I've regretted. that's why at the end of the day I will have to face the music and go back to where I started. being antisocial. it was peaceful and yet it was never this much a emotional stress point. I don't even want to consider myself a "family" member of fan bases anymore because everyone else in them are ether judgmental or treat you like shit regardless. I've been a quiet loyal fan without people stabbing me in the back and I should have been that way earlier on. because it's been the fact that no fucking person judged me. It's bad enough the people I still reach out to still have ties to the people who have left me for shit. so fuck this life. It's not even the people who live in this state with me. It's people all over the world who have done this to me. The day I leave this city I start fresh. If you really want to prove you give a shit is the moment you will have to work to prove it. or at least prove it in general. I'm tired of people leaving me because I'm that annoying. you knew this would coming the moment you got to know me. I'm a annoying fuck. always will be. This is what makes me autistic and different. If you can't handle my antics yet you don't want to change on that then get the fuck away from me. you say you want people to accept who you are as is, yet you didn't accept me for who I am. As is. and the moment that happens and you leave me is the moment you're a piece of hypocritical bullshit with everyone else. This is why I will focus on me. No one else. You give a shit about me? shut the fuck up up and prove it with your actions. you know I do if it was on my end.
I'm Done Ranting.
*~jurai or die~*
Friday, August 1, 2014
It's hard to not think of her everyday.
to not say in a admiration or a thought of someone who knows your moves and yet knows only so little of you
when you know what they day in day, time, night, hour, week, or even at work, school, or even vacation.
obsession isn't what i'm taking action upon,
interest is what i'm trying to explain.
she wants attention, yet it seems like it's too much a stretch to know what she's
dreaming of, what she thinks about.
you want to text her, yet you can't over do it.
you don't try to conversate everyday, yet you want to wish her good morning,
good night, "you're beautiful as you always were everyday i know your existence."
everyday you know every action you take,
you have a scenario you want to put her into it.
woman crush wednesdays don't do justice to how much you want
people to know of her existence.
you want to tell people of you heart beats for her everyday.
you want to make action plans that will include her in the future or even
it's bad enough you wonder who else thinks of her
the same way.
you see photos of her with male friends
one half of you remembers she has more connection with your gender
the other hates the fact these men have the
same opportunities as you into capturing her heart.
you want her to be not some fairy tale,
not some children's nursery story,
not some romantic comedy,
you want realism.
you want a moment to be with her and she gets mad at you because you overreact
even when you do something that doesn't pertain to both of you.
you want a moment when she finds the stupidest thing you do
enough to make her laugh.
you want a moment when anything you achieve
she feels like you deserve in some way and you can tell her," you made this possible for me, because you
believed in me."
you want a moment where you can just be fucking happy you get to hold her hand or she grabs your arm. and you walk side to side and not speak a word and
even have a moment to look at each others eyes.
no words needed.
beyond a mentions
beyond the shout out.
beyond the subliminal messages
and beyond the snapchats.
JUST. TO BE. WITH. HER.
for a woman i am thinking of tonight while listening to this song.
Pardon my Bluntness.
(poem by me.)
*jurai or die*